step 0: ya gotta truly crave the dick, or at least be able to convince him that you have an insatiable need to have his bits in your mouth and all over your face. build him up verbally before you begin. step 1: pacing; the glans is sensitive especially if he’s uncut, so just as you might not like a man to go from zero to full on hood pulled back clit licking right away, start by teasing his inner thighs and lower belly. rub your face against him, nuzzle his balls, feel him grow against your cheek. if he’s slow to get hard, don’t stroke it– try just taking his soft cock in your mouth and letting it grow against your tongue. step 2: technically the most sensitive parts of the D are the frenulum (aka the fleshy seam right under the head) and the part where the shaft meets the ridge of the glans. use those spots wisely and slowly! if you overstimulate them he might cum too soon before his orgasm is fully built up, and that sucks. many guys like gentle fingertip touches or cupping their balls, light pressure against the taint, or pressure against their pubis with your thumb below/behind the balls while you tease the cock. a light grip around the base, pressing in and down, will make him throb and get harder for you. step 3: edge him, use your mouth and hands, take it as deep as you can handle then slowly pull off. make out with the seam underneath his shaft. when he starts to twitch, or when his balls tighten up and pull close to his body, he’s getting close. you may be able to gently massage or tug his balls down and hold him off— some guys don’t like this though, so ask. (this is also where a stretchy – not a metal – cock ring can help, if behind the balls) step 4: decide beforehand where you want him to cum and what you’re going to do with it. if you love cum, great! tell him how much you want it and where you want it to go. start with “I need you to cum for me, I want it in my mouth” or something like that. if you don’t, it’s ok too, just finish him in a way that won’t end with you being disgusted as that can kill the mood a bit. e.g. if you don’t want to swallow it but you’re ok tasting it for a second, just finish him against your tongue with your mouth kind of open and let it all run out. if you don’t want it in your mouth at all, tell him you want it on your tits. don’t go overboard stroking him, this is a bj not a handjob— use your mouth until he’s basically starting to orgasm. important: as he cums and especially after, his glans is going to be super sensitive and he might not want any stimulation there. you can still gently ease him down with stimulation to his shaft and balls. if you do this right you can probably get him hard again after a few minutes, vs if you go ham on the glans he’s gonna be out of service for a little while. things I personally like: • edging a lot, then slowly licking the frenulum until I orgasm • when a partner likes to rub my cock and balls all over her face, even if she doesn’t want a facial. slapping it against her lips and cheeks is also amazing • gently sucking my balls with taint pressure from a finger or two • when a partner grabs my ass and pulls my cock deep into her mouth • when a partner masturbates while she’s sucking me, especially if she is edging and trying to hold off her own orgasm until I cum • when I’m right about to cum, like at the first twitch, just take me deep in your mouth and hold your tongue against my shaft. might take a few seconds to start spilling but that hang time feels so good. don’t stroke or anything, just cup the balls and hold it there until it softens. hope that helps! happy sucking