So, one day I noticed when I was thinking about my characters if it’s okay to lewd the mother of the main character since Identified with the main character, so to fix that I started to identify with the mom so it feels more like a self-insert but it happened that I came to a conclusion that I won’t be able to make the romance with the protagonist and the other character since it will be gross to imagine the self-insert’s daughter having a romance.
So I thought, if you created the character, is it incest? Now, hear me out, you may not see them as your children but is it morally okay? My answer is, yes, you can want to fuck your fictional characters. As long as you see them as more of a person than your children it’s okay. It’s just like these imaginary boyfriends or girlfriends you create in your mind because you’re lonely, or an imaginary friend, your imaginary friend isn’t your family, you DON’T consider them family, so you are allowed to fantasize about fucking your imaginary friend.